Public Speaking is terrifying for most people, and rightly so because the outcome strongly effects what people think about us. This is why public speaking causes so much anxiety and concern.We all have the need to speak well in front of an audience at times during our lives. Whether you're speaking at your sister's wedding, addressing your team, teaching a course or speaking to a judge, we all want to do well. The point is, we all have to do it — so we might as well try to get good at it.The good news is that, with thorough preparation and practice, you can overcome your nervousness and perform exceptionally well.
It is imperative to know the demographic of the audience. If you are speaking in front of an audience, there is usually a reason. Know who you are speaking to and what they want or need to take away. If it's friends and family, entertain them. If it's a corporate event, teach and inspire them. Now that you know what you want to say, you need to figure out how you’re going to deliver the talk.Practicing in front of a mirror is a good way to learn the proper amount of body motion, hand usage and facial expressions.With enough practice, you will be able to glance at your notes occasionally for needed reminders, but will be able to deliver a talk that is lacking in awkwardness and filled with engagement and flow. Remember, RHEARSE, RHEARSE, and RHEARSE!When you speak, try to engage your audience. This makes you feel less isolated as a speaker and keeps everyone involved with your message.
If appropriate, ask leading questions targeted to individuals or groups, and encourage people to participate and ask questions.Also, pay attention to how you're speaking. If you're nervous, you might talk quickly. This increases the chances that you'll trip over your words, or say something you don't mean. Force yourself to slow down by breathing deeply. Don't be afraid to gather your thoughts; pauses are an important part of conversation, and they make you sound confident, natural, and authentic.Pay attention to your body language: stand up straight, take deep breaths, look people in the eye, and smile. Don't lean on one leg or use gestures that feel unnatural.
Speaking is a great way to connect with people and a skill we all should master.It's a must for leaders and managers. It's a must for sales. It's basically a requirement for all entrepreneurs and business leaders.
So get on with it.